Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Three Months, Still Learning


Today marks three months in Costa Rica. And to commemorate such an occasion, I thought I would write a little bit about the things I am still learning about living in a new country and living in a new culture.

Not only do we routinely lose power (like for a few min. every night), but apparently occasionally the whole country loses it as well. Last week there were national power outages, lasting for between 3-5 hours. They were planned, but not communicated. So I found myself stuck outside of our electric gate, unable to get up the driveway, and Nicki found her self locked in. Thank goodness for the option of crawling under barbed wire fences to get in and out of our property.

Guanabanas make the best batidos (shakes). Well, that is according to our 50 year old gardener who, on two separate occasions, climbed up a very non-climber-friendly tree, asking both Nicki and I to stand beneath the tree as he shook the branches. Our job was to attempt to catch the large pokey green fruit that would fall, so we could try this acclaimed treat. I'll let you know how my milkshake tastes with the Guanabana is ripe.

Speaking of weird fruits, you have probably heard of guavas, but have you ever seen one? In the picture, I am holding one. To get to the fruit you need to crack this hard outer shell. Inside, there are small while fuzzy pods, that look and feel like a wet cotton ball. The fruit is the white fur-like coating around a seed, and you eat them by sucking on them like a hard candy. The kids wont touch them, I think it is the texture.

Here in the private school, kids learn to write cursive before print. Yes, we are talking about kindergartners learning letters in script. It still doesn't make sense to me, and has thrown off both Gabi and Ryan, but they are doing quite well none the less.
There is no easy way to transfer funds from one bank to the next. And you often pay people not by sending them a personal check in the mail, but by bringing that check and depositing it into their back account. This means coming to the bank, taking a number, and waiting. Just to give you an idea, last time I walked in and took the number 78. They were only on 16. I was glad I brought a book, and was surprised I was out within the hour.

Crocodiles get lost, end up in the ocean, and eat dogs. A sad story from a friend this week. I choose not to think about it.

While I have gotten used to the bugs, there is nothing quite like stepping on a beetle to throw me in a fear of the creepy crawlies. Flying beetles have to be the most dense insects (on more then one level). I can not begin to tell you how many I have flicked from my floor and swatted from my head. Seriously, gross.

And finally, there is a reason why they tell you NOT to feed the monkeys. Jorgito, Ele's (our housekeeper's) son chose to give the Titi monkeys a few bananas. And they went crazy! And got really brave. They were taking it out of his hand, jumping up on him, and swarming. But as a side note, they get really angry when when the food is gone! Remember that, do not feed the monkeys!

While I am sure there are many many more cultural experience I can share with you, I will save them for later. Three months into it, I am still learning, always adjusting. I have learned to be flexible, humble, and teachable. And this is just the beginning. And I will never get sick of the sunsets.

Thursday, April 19, 2007

Birthday!

Last Monday, I was greeted by Nicki, four little munchins who had the day off from school, Ele (our cleaning lady), Jorgito (Ele’s son), and Hector (our pool guy/gardener). They were all at my doorstep, singing a combination of Happy Birthday and Cumpleanos Feliz. I can’t think of many better ways to start off a birthday celebration. On Monday, I turned 23! I know, I feel old. But it was reassuring when everyone here asked and responded, “que joven”- how young!

I was blessed to have Michele come down from San Jose, and Aleasha take the day off to help me celebrate my birthday. We started out the festivities by getting our nails done. At 4 mil a piece ($8), it is pretty amazing what these women can paint, and a pampering I don’t usually take the time to indulge in (though it is pretty standard here to get your toe nails painted on a regular basis. I need to work on that! To the left, I’m picking out my nail design…

To make the day “special” Aleasha and Michele made a sash for me to wear proudly around town the rest of the day. To the left, you see me sporting it with my bathing suit (yes, I wore it out for lunch, on the beach, out for dinner, and out to play pool!). On the front, it read “Estoy cumpleando anos hoy” and on the back “How es mi cumpleanos” with a small “It’s my birthday!” translation for the gringos that crossed out paths. Biliana, a friend of ours, is celebrating her birthday on Saturday, and I am pretty sure we are going to be passing the birthday sash around.

After lunch at the beach, the three of us hit the playa to swim, lay out, and watch the sunset. I love being at the beach, and it was a great way to enjoy my day off from work! We came home just in time to have cake with the Chandlers. Ele made Tres Leches, which is a cake made from three different types of milk. Not like our typical birthday cake, but it was a treat!

To splurge, we went to the Gran Escape for dinner. It is a nice restaurant downtown Quepos that specializes in seafood. Maria, Biliana, Christy, Aleasha, Michele and Rochan all came for dinner, where we ordered everything from Dorado to Shrimp, and fish tacos to nachos. After dinner we made out way to Byblos, a combination of a pool hall, bar, and casino. It is the place to be on Monday nights, so we joined the crowd to end our celebration. While I may not be much of a pool player, I had a blast trying, failing, and watching others play pool.

Thanks to everyone at home who sent your love by way of cards, phone calls and emails! Thanks for being part of making me feel love and remembered on my birthday!



Saturday, April 7, 2007

Semana Santa


This week, the whole country has been celebrating Semana Santa, or Holy Week. The kids have had off school all week, most businesses shut down by Thursday, and it is a national holiday weekend. Because of that, traffic is crazy and the beach is packed. Ticos come from around the country to literally pitch their tents on the beach and stay the weekend. Between Thursday and Sunday morning, it is illegal to sell beer and liquor (not to say that it still doesn't happen)... an old man on the beach was yelling in Spanish, "Get your beer before the police come! Get it before it is confiscated!" (the picture of the beach to the left doesn't do justice to how busy it has been, but it is a glimpse)

There is also a lot of activity within the Catholic church this week. Thursday, practicing Catholics go to confession, to position themselves before God for Easter. Thursday night, we had the opportunity to walk with a procession through town, visiting the Stations of the Cross. A local Catholic church set up the 14 stations, which reflect Jesus' suffering during the Passion. A group of around 150 people followed a group of young girls carrying candles and a truck carrying a loud speaker and sounds system. To the right, you see the group walking through the street.

At each of the stations, we stopped and they read a short verse and commentary about what Jesus went through. There was a brief application followed by the Lord's prayer and prayer to Mary. The stations were really impressive, and more then I would have expected. Real people dressed up and staged the scenes from Jesus' suffering. And we moved on, walking through the streets, circling the city, singing between stations. To the right, the crowd looks on at the station showing Jesus baring the cross.

It was my first time experiencing something like this, but it was a really cool cultural experience, and I was encouraged to hear how the church made the suffering of Jesus something applicable and relevant to the lives of followers today. And I am encouraged and pushed once again to learn more about the Catholic faith here, and what it looks like to have a catholic (unified) church despite theological differences.

While the Stations we visited are a little different, here is a list I found that can at least give you a glimpse of what our procession through Quepos looked like:

Stations of the Cross

Jesus is condemned to death
Jesus receives the cross
Jesus falls the first time
Jesus meets His Mother
Simon carries the cross
Veronica wipes Jesus' face with her veil
Jesus falls the second time~
Jesus meets the women of Jerusalem
Jesus falls the Third time~
Jesus is stripped of His garments
Crucifixion: Jesus is nailed to the cross
Jesus dies on the cross
Jesus' body is removed from the cross
Jesus is laid in the tomb

Tuesday, April 3, 2007

Summer Missions

Last night, Aleasha, Gretel and I took some time to walk through Quepos and pray together for the city. We prayed that God would reign here, and that he would use us and the other Christians here in changing the hearts of the many lonely and broken people around us. We prayed that he would bring up tico Christian leaders to lead the local church to deeply love the their neighbors and we prayed that we would be "covered in the dust of our Rabbi", Jesus, walking closely behind him. Sonlife, the ministry that brought me to Costa Rica in high school, teaches about basing ministry around the three calls of Jesus,
1. Come and See
2. Follow me
3. Make disciples of all nations
and Aleahsa, I, and a few others have talked about how to create "Come and See" opportunities here in Quepos. And there have been some pretty cool ideas, including everything from running kids camps to opening a pizza place. From buying a hotel to run a discipleship program to hosting a concert in the "crack park" where we could bring in musicians and have people share their testimonies.

And it has been exciting to dream and pray about it, and to place ourselves before God in expectation, knowing that his heart is that all the people here know and love him. So, I want to invite you to pray with us, and dream with us, and share in God's story at work here. Aleasha is setting up a summer missions program and put together this flier. Use it in two ways- first, as a guide to pray for what God is setting up for this summer and to pray that all the needs (facilities, finances, open doors) are met. and second, if you are interested or know anyone who would be interested in serving in Costa Rica for a few months, let me know! Click on the flier below to see it in more detail.

Sunday, April 1, 2007

Jaco

Today we (Aleasha, Biliana, Gretel and I) went to Jaco to watch a surf competition. Jaco is about an hour north of Manuel Antonio, a straight shot and great day trip. The competition was put on by some of the local surf shops, and we heard about it through a group called “Christian Surfers” who have a ministry running their own shop (Walk On Water or W.O.W. Surf Shop), giving lessons, and connecting with the surfing community in Jaco. So it was cool to go and check out a new beach and support what they are doing there!

Surfing revolves around the tide schedule, so as a result, there is a lot of down time, waiting for the waves to come in. We got there early, and walked the main strip. Jaco is more commercialized than Manuel Antonio, so there are a lot of stores and restaurants that are more familiar for tourists. We treated ourselves to Quiznos! Something that is foreign to us in the Quepos area. (to the right, Gretel and Biliana enjoying the shade).

When we were moving from shade to sun, I noticed that I had accidently tipped my beach bag over. I quickly went through to make sure that I had everything. Wallet, check. Phone, check. Coin purse, check. Keys… keys? No keys. I freak out. Looking on the ground, thinking about how this could have happened, retracing my last few steps. I start to feel really bad, thinking that Scott or Nicki will have to drive out to bring a spare… then I notice that none of the girls are responding. Aleasha suggests that I check with Gretel… who promptly says, “What do you call it? April fools!” They had stolen the keys while I was in the bathroom at Quiznos. They got me good. (to the right, Aleasha and I... this picture makes me laugh because I kinda look like I have a mullet... and everytime Aleasha sees one she hits me (slug bug style). I still need practice at this game, becuase I have yet to spot one first).

While Jaco's beach isn't nearly as beautiful as Manuel Antonio, all in all, it was a great day. To all of you at home, thanks again for your continual support through letters, emails, and phone calls. And if you have any good April Fool’s Day stories, send them my way.